Monday, March 7, 2011


I am pondering on this topic from 20 January 2011.
  • What we are in our opinion and to those related to us. It is our personality, finances, attitude, success, relations, etc.
  • Our Nature is often the function of our family background (immediate parents), friend circle, our community, Education, Profession, Spending habits, Nature of the Spouse and Children, etc.
  • Nature often reflects our paradoxes, hypocrisy, intelligence, cleverness, how we deal with our friends, Seniors, Juniors, enemy and level of our “openness and transparency”, etc.
Some approaches to identify the Nature:
  1. What you often like to become and what you often do under self motivation?
  2. When you sit on internet, the contents that you often browse and read and that what is easily accepted and retained by your memory.
  3. Who are your role models.
  4. In class room, where you seat.
  5. Your makeups, hypocrisy and show.
  6. The thoughts, aspirations which often come to your mind and dreams.
  7. The topics on which you discuss and write when self motivated.
  8. The television channels which you watch, when alone, when with parents and when with friends.
  9. Your perceptions towards different things/situations in life.
  10. The things which you recommend to others.
  11. Your ego level and how you satisfy your ego.
  12. If suddenly deprived of all monetary supports, the way in which you will move ahead?
  13. If suddenly deprived of all emotional supports, the way in which you will react?
  14. The reasons for which you love and/or marry someone.
  15. What you do when some one forces/compels you to do something?
  16. Your reactions to different violence, stressful and adverse situations.
  17. Human Resource Test: When all jobs have same salary, when there is no competition, and getting professions you desire is very easy, then the profession which you will like to take up.

Those who often get into Dilemma/Cross roads are often Laggards and Failures. In this situation Writing/Blogging, increasing Horizontal growth, increasing Openness-Transparency, and taking professional consultancy services may be able to identify the Nature, which will help in understanding the matching System/Situation thus the Direction and Fortune.

Some of the services for Identifying our Nature are:
  2. Career Counselling from IGNOU
  3. Monster India-Psychometric Test
  4. Central Test-Psychometric
  5. Astrology/Career SWOT analysis
  6. Astrology/ Career forecast
  7. Sakshat-The educational portal from HRD Ministry, GOI
  • What we like to become, considering the motivation factors, livelihood, prosperity and other sense of satisfactions around it.  
  • Vast number of economies/Systems like Formal schools, colleges and training institutes, religious conversions, etc. are based on it. 
  • Conversion towards Nature is with very less Resistance, whereas Conversion against the Nature has High Resistance.
  • Most of the people live life to “impress” others, or for “what others talk about him/her”, or how others “react” toward him/her, so the Conversion often takes place to meet the expectation of others.  
  • Conversion is towards what we are attracted. It is towards what others (especially, family, society, age/maturity group friends, employers, employee, etc. expects from us).
  • Conversion is towards the Systems in which successful+/rich+/affluent+/prosper+/happy (materialistic) people lives.
  • The Factors which motivates Conversions are, Systems with Secured Job, Salary (High), authority/power, accommodation, vehicle, Beauty, Sex, Money, Tasty Food, Property, water resources, Security, and other pampering facilities.Grants/Donations/Charity/Providing salary even when not productive, etc. causes strong reason for Conversion of Beneficiary towards the Benefactors.
  • The Systems which pampers their Human resources, often kills the entrepreneurship qualities and makes them to breed the “pampered children”. 
  • Such Systems and Conversions often promotes inequality, hierarchy, promotes jealousy, ego related problems, revolts, and criminal activities, especially among those who could not properly Convert themselves, due to inner or situational resistance.
  • Religious Systems will Convert Nature by “Sanskaras”/Baptism/Circumcision, Providing Emotional and Financial support at the "immediate need of hour", etc. 
  • Conversion is best in the early young age, when we are infant, student, learner and virgin.
  • It is the economy in which a person operates. It is his/her educational, professional and administrative setups-rules, regulations, formalities, disciplines and expectations by the government and employer.
  • System Supports the Conversion of Nature.
  • Systems of Previous births (If you believe in Rebirth after Death), family, Governments, Current Employment and society have impact on the Nature.
  • Natures with Leadership qualities, Entrepreneurs, Bureaucrats, Writers, Celebrities, Philosophers, Saints, Astrologers, Priests, intellectuals, Strong-Dominant-Effluent people are able to create new Systems.
  • System should be like an amoeba so that it can adjust well its shape as per the changing situation, and it can “take up”/recruit the right human resource suited to its needs.
  • The person/Nature who does not find the most suited job is unfortunate and the System which does not find their most suited human resources/Nature is also unfortunate.
  • Every organisation is bound by a systematic rules and regulations (constitution). The person, who understands the System, follows the rules and regulations, meets the requirements of the system is often successful (in terms of respect, money and sex)  in life.
  • Smart Systems are able to identify their human resources and try to acquire them, often without bothering about educational qualifications, experiences, and other Conversions.
  • Smart Nature/People are able to identify their Systems and strive hard to get into it through different suitable Conversions.
  • Unfortunate Systems (Failures, Pauperism, Begging, Sex work, Theft, Loot, Terrorism, Naxalism, other forms of Violence, Diseases, Health hazards, Parasites, forceful/lured religious and Cultural conversions, Bribing, Tempting, etc.) are smarter than the Fortunate Systems in finding out their Nature/Human resources.
  • Many of the so called Unorganized Systems are also smarter in finding their Nature/Human resources.
  • Fortunate systems (those that pamper their human resources/Nature) are most often with very limited capacity, does not like openness and transparency, and quiet often are not smart and fortunate in finding their suitable human resources/Nature.
  • For example, the Systems of Transgenders in India and Emotionally Orthodox religious/cultural/linguistic Systems are very particular in finding out and acquiring their Nature, sometimes even forcefully!
  • With the increasing number of Natures (Population), if the number of Systems (Economies) to utilize the Nature and sustain themselves also increases, there will be an egalitarian growth, happiness and prosperity.
  • Similar Systems will Compete and also Cooperate. After some Decentralizations and Mergers-Acquisitions the Systems will attain sustainability.
  • Government (Administrative System) should promote formation of many systems by privatizing almost all Government enterprises, so that there is no monopoly from Government side and there is lots of Oligopoly. The Government System will then act as a "Refree". Currently the Government Systems tends to pamper their selected sections of Natures/the loyalists, when in need of public support, at the time of election and internal conflicts/domestic violence.
  • Educational Systems, Human Resource Training Systems should be smart enough to analyze and screen the different “Natures” at very young age itself (Misery and Misfortune Management).  For matching the best suited Nature for the System, Global opportunities should be taken into consideration, and getting Passport and Visas should be made easy.
  • System and nature should not develop bias for each other and “Shifts”/ “divorces” to match the perfect Nature to the perfect System should always be welcomed. 
  • The Fortunate Systems should hunt for their Nature in the manner similar to Unfortunate Systems.
  • The Natures comprising of failed ones, laggards, dulls, less intelligent are often the supporters, hosts and Fortune providers of the so called Successful Natures (Celebrities/Leaders) who in return, often sustain the livelihood of many follower and fan type of Nature.
  • In the egalitarian system, individualists will be more and the gap between the failures/laggards and successful people/leaders will be very less. System and Nature will easily find each others, without much struggles and barriers. 
  • A Nature feeling/or being considered "Undervalued"/lost/misplaced, unable to participate in generating income, unable to perform up to the expectation will be in condition of mismatched System and Nature.
  • The System may tolerate an "Underperformed" Nature, allowing him/her to Convert to the Expectations or may allow him/her to discover his right Nature and find the suitable System for him/her or "fire" him/her out with or without insult/torture.
  • The System in which a Nature  has become a "Parasite", it will be best to help and motivate the Nature in "Shifting" to the right System.
  • Well diversified Systems with good coordination along with a central control, will often find some or other ways to utilize the different "Natures", controlling parasitism and "misfortunes".
  • Parasitism is no doubt a failure on part of the System in "goal orientation" and selecting right Nature, but Parasitism is a pessimistic view. Same in terms of optimistic view will be "empowering" the human resource/the Nature, so that he/she can later empower others and to the Systems which helped him/her in self realization and attaining the potentials that are well rewarded by the situational demands/markets.
  • For a good System good Natures are important and for good Nature, planned/disciplined breeding is very important. Systems often decide, who should breed and who not!
My Personal Nature: I am bit lazy, slow in many expected activities, but I am consistent learner. Procrastination/Student syndrome/Perfectionism and "taking things for granted"  do sometimes affects me. I like flexibility and find difficulty in selecting. I selected Plantation course out of beauty, short duration, Government support, but it did not helped.
I love Sanskrit, Often also support maithili, speak Hindi, but earn my livelihood and express myself in English. Tamil, Kannada, Gujarati, Bengali are often close to me.
I take my own time in understanding the world, and the world too takes its own time in understanding me!.

I have been in formal education from year 1988 to 2008, i.e. 20 years with “gap” of 2 years, so totally 18 years. But I could never learn what profession will suit me best and fulfill my life. I stayed 4 months with my second Boss, who told me that my personality suits best to become a teacher/professor, and I should not damage his business, and he paid half of what he had committed, and later “fired” me out.
Again after staying for 4-5 months with my third boss (IIM studied), he told me to come to his house and teach his children.
Without hurting anyone's feelings, and in lighter sense, I often feel that many of the Schools with good infrastructures are just meant to give job to the "educated wives (English and other Foreign language speaking)" of the "Rich and effluent men".

Teaching my Teacher
·        During All India Tour of my B.Sc Agriculture, when our course teacher and tour guide took us to the house (now maintained as museum) of some of our former Prime Minister, I asked my teacher about family based legacy and importance of death. I discussed, “Do you feel that the children born in the family of “noble people” will also be noble or continue to be “noble” and will the Child born in the family of Common man will continue to be Common.
How much land, property, money, etc. should be given to a dead people? Detachment to Dead people is important, keeping some of the lessons learnt from them, alive.
·        During my Management course, In a session on Energy auditing, which was handled by the Director of the Institute, who also happened to be the Course Professor, I remarked, that many of the “High Profile” people, even in the warm weather, wears thick jacket/coat as mark of their Position, and sits in Air conditioned room/car, and ironically they often talk of Energy Accounting/Auditing/Saving!

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Economic sense

On 27 February 2011 (Sunday), went to a temple in Hosur, without “donatable amount” to pray some Mantra/Sloka/Stotram for a better fortune. While I was going out, a person called me and asked to give some money say Rs.25 and above, for which I said that I will like to give him or the temple later as I don’t have change.

This felt me to ponder – The temple and the priests too need money, which the “devotees” must give.

“Donations” is for the intellectuals, people associated with “Religion and Philosophy”, and Non Profit Organizations-all those associated with “Brahma and Saraswati”. “Donations” are as per our ability and willingness. “Hope for good fortune”, “Emotional blackmails”, “Blessings and Curse” acts as a compelling force.

“Tax” is for the administrator (elected, nominated, self nominated), who “fuels and runs” the different socio economic activities (positive and negative). Hope of administrative support, recognitions, fear of criminal and legal charges, social security, etc., acts as a compelling force.

“Salary and wage” is for the people who are supporting an economic system, designed by entrepreneurs. The desire of “continuity”, the power of vote, support and threat from the human resources, motivations and demotivations, etc., acts as the compelling force.

“Service Charge Margins/Commissions and Profit are for the people who are in Business and Trade. Fulfillment of different material needs, providing convenience and support, meeting of the demands; backed by purchasing power and disposable income acts as the compelling force.

“Interest” is for the time and situation based monetary/cash/credit service providers.

For a happy and complete life, Donations, Tax, Salary and wage, Margins and Commissions, Interests along with the Principal installment should be happily paid. 

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Property (Land, House, Factory etc.)

  1. The major portion of the salary of the “High salaried” person goes into the property, and other tangible assets.
  2. Property like good house will help you to get “good”+/“attractive” bride(s)/bridegroom(s) or/and “girlfriends” +/ “boyfriends”. It may increase the chances/risk of exogamy, but the progeny resulted out of it may not have that much emotional attachment to the ancestral property.
  3. It promotes marriage between the cousins and other forms of endogamy. Attachment to property often prevents to take the advantage of exogamy and other cross breeding.
  4. It makes to think of having more children.
  5. Property creates differences/conflicts/separation between the siblings, parents and other relatives, particularly when the dependence of children and grand children on parental property is more.
  6. Property creates many forms of ego and war.
  7. Few people can leave property to get a like minded friend/partner from other community. They value some special Human resource more important than the property.
  8. Individualists may not have that much attachment/affinity to the parental property. 
  9. Some people can align even with the unlike minded people for property. They value Property more important than the Human resource or ethics.
  10. Property motivates the people to maintain it and make it to grow/expand.
  11. Property helps the people to enjoy the Benefits of being in existence.
  12. Protection and Maintenance of property may prevents many people from enjoying the experience of travel and tourism.
  13. Investments in Property, most often creates Cash crunch to even the high profile rich people.
  14. Rising cost of Property, inflates the economy, and promotes materialism.
  15. Rising cost of Property de motivates many entrepreneurs in starting new businesses.
  16. Legal provisions like “Reverse Mortgage” helps the old people, not getting benefit from grown up children, to meet their liquidity requirements.
  17. Property and Power are closely related and all powerful people like to have more property.
  18. Property promotes many criminal activities like land grabbing. Many high profile and "respectful" personality may get corrupted in greed for the property. 
  19. Property may not be an issue for some of the migrating citizens/Banjaras/Gujjars. They mainly depend on the rent/leased form of property. 
  20. Property prevents to take advantages of opportunities in other countries and different forms of governances. 
  21. Property and Prodigal child is quiet often closely related, but many noble people do born in the house of the person having quiet large property.
  22. Property may not be easily liquidated. Under situations of very high cash requirements, it may be unwillingly sold at an "undervalued" price.
  23. Property promotes culture and business activities. 
  24. Property promotes Prosperity.
  25. Too much attachment to property may make a person "ghost" after his/her death. Attachment to property may also make to get rebirth in the same family, or difficulty in getting Moksha. 
  26. Many people dependent on religion for their livelihood, may like and make wish to their "client" for donating some property to them. Here quiet good amount of emotional blackmails are used.
  27. It can be partially/slowly/perpetually liquidated through different economic activities (e.g. Agriculture, Hotel, Rent/Lease, Paying Guest,Dharamshala, Production process, etc. The value of return from liquidation depends on the place (other property/location, concentration of resources, level of urbanization) and time (situation).
  28. The Indian Legal system are most often engaged by the property related cases. 
  29. Property gives employment to many people. In the present digital era, many softwares and devices like Geographical Information System, Geographical Positioning System, Satellite imagery, etc. are being used to mange the property. Government should use the new technologies to make digital records of all land and property documents, so that all the transactions/dealings related to property are ethical and transparent. 
  30. If the owner of the property does not utilizes it/consummates it, the Property will have tendency to "leave" and become someone's else. 
|| पुत्र कुपुत्र तु कि धन अरजे, पुत्र सुपुत्र तु कि धन अरजे || गीता प्रेस, गोरखपुर 
When the Child is of bad character, what is the use of accumulating the wealth? If the Child is of good  character than also what is the need of the wealth accumulation? Gita Press, Gorakhpur.

    Love Relationship and Marriage

    A person may fell in Love with some one due to Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) between them or Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect) between them.

    If you have faith in Past birth and Rebirth, then believe that the marriage, love and intimate sexual relationship(s) of past birth(s) do have impact on the present birth. Ø
    Since rebirth is due to not getting “Moksha”, and some sins (unbalanced Debit/Credit in terms of relations and finance), it is quiet possible that your past births partner(s) reappear in your life, make you crazy, but do not become yours! Or become yours, but out of some situational compulsion and you may not like her/him. On having many intimate sexual relationships in past birth, it is quiet possible to get more than one wife/husband in the present birth, or extramarital relationships, or disturbed relationships, or many love failures, not getting the desired other half, situational or compelled single-hood, loss of other half (some days after marriage, or before completion of old age), situation of staying away from each other for many days in a year, etc.
    Those, like many Sadhus/Monks/Bachelors who haven't "fulfilled" themselves by getting intimate (ethical sexual relationship) and supporting and getting supported by an opposite sex as "Other Half" may too find difficulty in getting the "Other Half" in the next birth(s). 
    The rich/ more influential/strong/dominant people will have more probability to get into polygamy or intimate sexual relationships with more than one partner.
    These all relations will again decide the fate in the next birth(s). The children and dependents are also the result of unbalanced Debit/Credit of past births of the individual and family.

    Money/wealth/job/salary/personality/family/race/religion/caste/educational qualifications/jealousy/competition/other relationships/other ego factors, etc. play an important role in making and deciding the fate of the love relationships, which starts with the first sight, creations of impressions and follow-ups.  
    To bid a high incomer/successful bride/bridegroom even compromises with genealogy and astrological factors are made in many parts of the country.

    Most often the Love is between the people having some Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) between them (say being attractive, both being successful, happening to be together, etc.), but the cases of divorce and frustrations after marriage may also be high in this category, especially due to ego, jealousy, imbalance between work life and family life, misunderstandings, children related problems, existing relationships and 'influencing of divorce', etc. Here both the partners may have dominating effect and issues related to children may get less prioritized.
    Many successful person, either do not marry, even when they marry, produce no to very few child and most often their child will not be so successful.
    In the case of failed love, frustrations are quiet natural. To control frustration, try to use the power of wisdom. Sometimes when there is a serious virus attack in the computer, it is recommended to use the "System Restore" tool to "undo harmful changes to your computer". Think about your life, which was before meeting the "infatuating" partner, who could not become yours. Try to meet your good old friends of days before meeting that partner. Make balance sheet of all good and bad deeds done by you. Charitable/Philanthropic activities, visiting of religious places and eco-tourism sites, watching of comedy movies, etc. will also help. This all will give you lots of comforts. 
    I am not sure, but I am developing notion that the love relationships with the intention of marriage+/sex, should be avoided between the Rashi (Vedic astrology) of self and that of the very close blood relatives, though there may be good similarity in thoughts and understandings.

    But most marriage, with no or least cases of divorce is in the cases of some Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect) between them, though there may be frustrations (say differences in income, property, success level, ego, height, weight, color, age, education, past relationships, etc.). Here one partner will have more dominating effect on the other, which will be happily/unhappily accepted by the other. Here issues related to children will get prioritized, at least by one partner! God does not give all happiness to everyone.

    The successful marriages are the combination of some Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) and some Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect).

    Balanced diet is better than that of the one type of tasty food. Many online matrimonial sites will be in better position to comment on the factors which influences the "Natural Selection in Human Breeding".

    The active age for involving in career related success and fruitful copulation coincides. The professionally successful couples, not having successful child will feel very unhappy at the later part of their life. So at least one partner, especially the mother should compromise with the hunger of personal success and both partners should involve in parenting, as the professional success may come in the later age, but the time to involve in active parenting will be limited for a short young age (20s and somewhat early part of 30s) in life. A mother’s (along with the father and other family member’s) one year active parenting (copulation, pregnancy and delivery) will prevent her and the family, from the difficulties involved in grooming of the child in somewhat later stages of life.

    Ø (I often feel that I had more than one love/intimate relationships in my past birth, and I was rich man, but due to some of my good deeds, I got birth in quiet good family, but could not get the expected love relationship and have to often face shortage/limitation of money. Though having desire to get “Dharma”, “Artha”, “Kama”and “Moksha” in this life, much imperfectness, sensual desires, limitations and laggardness became part of it! Currently I have reached near to completion of the average Half Life (30 years), but still I have not found my expected “Other Half”. I (Kanya Rasi) got attracted to a girl of Singh rasi, Kanya Rasi, Karka rasi and the Vrishabh rasi (by name, not sure of date of birth)-all improperly expressed, short duration and failed!. I finding many “dissimilarities” “rejected” the girl who had come in my fate, mainly due to the family based issues. The girl of Singh rasi, though a year smaller than me was ahead of me in life. “One sided” love for her was so strong that I was able to “feel” her even by being on a very distant place from her. She had “Synergetic effect” on me and my mind kept on giving feelings for her, such that the year in which she got “engaged”, the feelings for her increased, and later on knowing that she is between Marriage and Single hood I even expressed desire to marry her, but her success in career, my laggardness and struggle in career and something unknown, kept her to strongly avoid me. Many astrologers do not recommend the marriage between Singh and Kanya. I used “Gyan yoga” and mantra therapy to control my emotions towards her.) 

    Friday, December 24, 2010

    Stress/Trauma Management

    Almost daily and mainly on Sunday, I see many butcher shops operating on the road side of Hosur and many other parts of the country (very less in Gujarat). I do feel sympathy for the poor animals standing in queue to be killed. Condition of many human beings are not much different from them.

    The Goat/Ship’s strategy: When a goat/sheep standing in queue to be killed for meat, see their fellow goat/sheep being killed, though scared and unhappy, they try to avoid seeing the scene, maintain silence, tries to graze something, even try to have sex with the nearby goats and when taken for killing they cry (some loudly, some in feeble voice) until they are no more to cry!
    Many human beings and other animals too follow the same strategy. 

    Wednesday, December 15, 2010

    Using Astrology in Planning the Life

    The Traders and speculators in the stock/commodity market use Fundamental Analysis and Technical Analysis to plan their trade and gain profit while reducing the risks and minimizing the loss.
    These analysis is based on the belief that "History Repeats Itself". All businesses, particularly the insurance industry is based on Trend Analysis. Learnings from the Past forms the basis of Planning for the Future.
    Astrology is too a similar science. Similar to the Exchange markets, Human life is too filled with many risks and uncertainties. From the beginning of civilizations, people would be trying to analyze the fact why some one becomes so fortunate and someone so unfortunate? Why some one is able to gain maximum success and happiness in life? Based on the different studies and generalizations, some conclusions on human fate would had been derived which became the science of Astrology. 
    Indian Vedic Astrology takes time of birth, date of birth, and place of birth for predicting the fortune. Palmistry, finger print reading, face reading, hand-writing reading, etc. are also used by many astrologers/personality analyzers.
    The influence of planets (astronomical objects), Vastu sastra, color, metals and stones, "karma of past birth", karma in the present life, relationship with relatives, dependents and friends, etc. are also used in explaining many happenings in life.
    Some people have good intuition and they can foresee some events. Some people talks of their dream coming true. These all may be the effects of different mental energies, influence of past birth or the "spirits".
    Career and Sex are the too main goals of most of the living beings. (As per the Indian philosophy, apart from     Arth (Money) and Kama (Sex), the other two are Spiritualism/Dharma and Moksha).
    Very few people get success in getting the desired career, sexual relationships, progenies, property, recognition, etc. Large number of people suffers from one or the other frustrations. 
    The science of astrology can be used to manage the frustrations by providing prudence, perseverance and rationalism towards different disturbing events in life.
    I too ponder about the possibility of getting a progeny with fate and success similar to a given successful personality by a planned and controlled copulation, pregnancy, delivery and grooming of the child. For this the mutual understanding and cooperation between the male-female copulating partners are must.
    Sometimes in a society, a female is more successful than the "matching age group" males of that society. In this case, without compromising her ego, she will find difficulty in getting the bridegroom. If not motivated/"compelled" to marry, possibility of her remaining unmarried  is high which is not good from the "Eugenics" point of view, but may be good from the entrepreneur/leader point of view!. (In India and many parts of the world, marriages are mainly out of the compulsion by parents, family, society, etc.). Here again the astrology can play an important role to help the female in taking her marriage decision. This also holds good for the male who finds difficulty in getting his "perfect" "other half".
    If we take a successful personality who was able to get success in career (remuneration, recognition) and sex (love, marriage with the desired partner with getting of progeny (successful and fertile)), study his/her place and time of birth and make a back calculation about the probable time of copulation by his/her parents, and try to replicate some of the environmental factors which prevailed from his/her copulation to delivery and grooming, will it not be possible to get a child near to the success of that personality?
    Many successful astrologers would be those who have studied large number of successful personalities and the environmental factors associated with them.
    It is bit difficult to plan the copulation, but the time of marriage and culture has role in it. Creating good environment during pregnancy is quiet easy to attain. Deciding the suitable place of delivery can also be planned, and it is quiet easy to attain.
    After the child's birth, his/her kundli/horoscope should be prepared and analysed. The study of the kundli should be in the background of new environment and new opportunities. The successful personalities with similar kundili/horoscope/date, time and place of birth should also be studied. Recommendations from other branches of astrology like palmistry, Numerology, Nadi astrology can also be taken into account.

    Based on these astrological predictions, with the study of new environment and opportunities, if the direction/path of life is planned, will it not be easy for the child to attain success?

    Genealogy/Family Tree:  As we cannot separate ourself from some of the hereditary diseases, we cannot separate ourself from the good and bad deeds of our ancestors, parents and other relatives. An individual and/or a family needs to maintain the genealogical records/family tree of their parents, relatives and ancestors, especially in reference to the timings and date of the important events like birth, different turning points, education, profession, relations, fortunes and misfortunes, success and mistakes, children, investments, death,  etc. These records will also play a very important role in planning the life of the young child.
    For the believers of Life after Death: Quiet often, the deceased family members/relatives, takes rebirth in the same family. So the family records will help in giving the child a better future.

    Acknowledgement: I am grateful to Shri Nagaprasad, CEO, Safe Trade Advisors (, Bangalore,  who taught me the basics of Technical and Fundamental analysis in Commodity Trading.

    Suggested Browsing:
    1)Astrological Baby Planning-Astro Jyoti

    Saturday, November 6, 2010

    ॐ तपः The Child and Parenting

    मम योनिर्महद्ब्रह्म तस्मिन्गर्भं दधाम्यहम्।

    संभवः सर्वभूतानां ततो भवति भारत॥१४- ३॥

    (हे भारत, यह महद् ब्रह्म (मूल प्रकृति) योनि है, और मैं उसमें गर्भ देता हूँ। इस से ही सभी जीवों का जन्म होता है हे भारत।)
    सर्वयोनिषु कौन्तेय मूर्तयः संभवन्ति याः।
    तासां ब्रह्म महद्योनिरहं बीजप्रदः पिता॥१४- ४॥

    ( हे कौन्तेय, सभी योनियों में जो भी जीव पैदा होते हैं, उनकी महद् ब्रह्म तो योनि है (कोख है), और मैं बीज देने वाला पिता हूँ।)
    (Spoken by Krishna to Arjuna on the battlefield of Kurukshetra Bhagavad Gita, Ch. 14, Verse 3 "My womb is the great Nature (Prakriti or MAYA). In that I place the germ (embryo of life). Thence is the birth of all beings."
    Bhagavad Gita, Ch. 14, Verse 4 "Whatever forms are born, O Arjuna, in any womb whatsoever, the great Brahma (Nature) is their womb and I am the seed-giving father."
    Explanation: Prakriti (Nature), made up of the three qualities (Sattwa, Rajas and Tamas), is the material cause of all beings.
    In the great Prakriti, I place the seed for the birth of Brahma (the creator, also known as Hiranyagarbha, or Ishwar, or the conditioned Brahman), and the seed gives birth to all beings. The birth of Brahma (the creator) gives rise to the birth of beings.
    The primordial Nature (prakriti) gives birth to Brahma, who creates all beings.
    (I am the father; the primordial Nature is the mother).)
    यावत्संजायते किंचित्सत्त्वं स्थावरजङ्गमम्।
    क्षेत्रक्षेत्रज्ञसंयोगात्तद्विद्धि भरतर्षभ॥१३- २६॥

    ( हे भरतर्षभ, जो भी स्थावर यां चलने-फिरने वाले जीव उत्पन्न होते हैं, तुम उन्हें इस क्षेत्र (शरीर तथा उसके विकार आदि) और क्षेत्रज्ञ (आत्मा) के संयोग से ही उत्पन्न हुआ समझो।) Bhagavad Gita, Ch. 13, Verse 26 "Wherever a being is born, whether unmoving or moving, know thou Arjuna, that it is from the union between the field and the knower of the field." (Purusha is the knower of the field; Prakriti is the field; Shiva is another name for the knower of the field and Shakti is the field; Spirit is another name for the knower of the field and Matter (Prakriti) is the field.))
    गतिर्भर्ता प्रभुः साक्षी निवासः शरणं सुहृत्।
    प्रभवः प्रलयः स्थानं निधानं बीजमव्ययम्॥९- १८॥
    (मैं ही गति (परिणाम) हूँ, भर्ता (भरण पोषण करने वाला) हूँ, प्रभु (स्वामी) हूँ, साक्षी हूँ, निवास स्थान हूँ, शरण देने

    वाला हूँ और सुहृद (मित्र अथवा भला चाहने वाला) हूँ। मैं ही उत्पत्ति हूँ, प्रलय हूँ, आधार (स्थान) हूँ, कोष हूँ। मैं ही

    विकारहीन अव्यय बीज हूँ।) श्रीमद्भगवद्गीता, नौंवा अध्याय Wikipedia on Maya

    Om Tapah: The Child
    1.      Impact of Genes/DNA
    ·        Impact of father’s genes (Autosomes, X and Y Chromosomes).
    ·        Impact of Mother’s genes (Autosomes, X chromosomes, Mitochondrial chromosomes)
    ·        The impact of lineage/social biology
    2.      Impact of Environment and Activities (prior, during and after copulation)
    ·        The impact of gravitational forces of different Astronomical object and cosmic energies (Graha, Nakshatra, etc.). Astrological compatibility.
    ·        The Impact of Food (Nutrition-balanced or deficient, Satwik/ Rajshi/ Tamsik). Food can be aphrodisiac and anaphrodisiac. Some gynecologists also claims that the food habits of parents has impact on the sex of the child.
    ·        The Impact of Health
    (1)   Heritable/non heritable diseases and deformities.
    (2)   The process of Mitosis and Meiosis.
    (3)   The Health and Concentration of the sperms.
    (4)   The Health of the Ovum
    (5)   The normality in functioning of copulatory organs, Uterus, Pelvic girdle and Breast.
    (6)   The age factor and Maturity of the parents.
    (7)   The blood compatibility.
    (8)   The Impact of Mental/Psychological Health
    (a) The attitude towards the process of child production.
    (b) Consciousness of the parents about themselves (Strengths and Weaknesses)
    (c) Objective of Copulation: Child production (Dhramaj) or Sexual pleasure (Child byproduct) (Kamaj)?
    (d)  Degree of Activeness, laziness, Consciousness and unconsciousness, under addictions, etc.
    (e)  The behavior during copulation (Assertiveness Vs. Aggressiveness)
    (f)   The sense of sexual satisfaction
    (g)  The sense of hygiene/cleanliness.
    (h)  The Pride / Vanity / Ego / optimism / pessimism / positivity / negativity / frustrations / Restlessness / excitements / forgiveness of the parents.
    (i)   The faith in God/divine energy.
    (j)   The gratitude of the parents towards God for giving the ability of copulation and the resulting pleasure out of it.
    (k)   Desire and Prayers for getting the good child. (Healthiest Sperm to fuse with the healthiest ovum.)
    (l)      The gratitude and respect of both the partners towards each other for fulfilling and mutually “satisfying” each other.
    (m)  The gratitude towards the forefathers and the activities done for their welfare, gratitude towards the guardians/elders and Gurus.
    (n)    Prayers for good “Energy” to enter the body forming in the womb.
    (o)   Feelings of the parents, especially the mother during the pregnancy. Diet of the mother during the pregnancy. 
    (p)   Teaching activities of the parents, especially mother during the pregnancy.
    (q)   Pain/suffering of the mother during delivery and the gratitude towards the divine energy for the successful child birth.
    (r)   Feeding of colostrum and then the mother's milk to the baby.
    (s)  Immunizations/vaccinations given to the child.
    ·        Net of the good and bad deeds, net of what the parents have given to others and what they have taken from others.
    ·        Blessings of the Guardians/elders and Guru.
    ·        Charitable activities of the parents.
    ·        The impact of Time
    (1)   Time of copulation
    (2)   Time of child birth
    ·        The impact of Place.
    (1)   Place of copulation.
    (2)   Place of child birth.
    (3)   Climate of the place has impact on the sexual health.
    (4)   Place has impact on the fate of a person. The energy that exists on that place.
    ·        Teaching activities of the parents, especially mother.
    ·        Grooming/Schooling/Nurturing/Environment provided to the child.
    ·        The ability of parents/society/school to analyze and understand the niche opportunities/special talents possessed by the child and nurturing it.
    ·        Government/administration/social structure to protect the women and the child.
    ·        Government’s role in Population control.
    ·        Socialization: Social taboos, communication between the male and females at different age groups, permissions and restrictions for the relationship between male and female. The “Lakshman Rekhas”.
    ·        The education of the parents. Possession of knowledge capital!
    ·        The financial conditions of both the parents, and the resources available with them/is in their control, the ability to meet different physical and material needs. The nutrition provided to the child.
    ·        The impact of language (Mantra, Sound)
    ·        The competitions, corruptions and struggles in the society.
    ·        Preferences towards “Inbreeding” or “out breeding”.
    ·        The pollutions (carcinogens, oxidants, harmful radiations etc.) in the environment.
    ·         The different relationships in the family and of the parents of the child.
    ·        The world beyond the world and the Rebirth.
    (1)   There is World beyond this material world. The world of spirits/ghosts/souls/ “jeev atama”
    (2)   The “jeev atma”/soul/spirit after death, based on the net balance of its Karma, is either “forced”/ “directed” to take another form of life (inferior/superior) or with its balance of “positive – negative energy” can continue to remain in the “conscious” form and put bad and good impact on the other forms of bodily life.
    (3)   There would also be some form of competitions between the "jeev atmas" to get into the “good” /lucky womb. Which spirit will get into which womb, will be greatly decided by the present and previous births karma of the parents and the karma of the spirit.  
    (4)   The balance of the good and bad deeds of the previous births continues to have impact on the fate of the child and his/her behaviors (mainly childhood)

    The moral objective behind producing child is to transfer our parental debts to our child.(Pitra Rin)
    The pleasure associated with copulation is the “motivation” given by the Nature/ “Kamdev” to reproduce/breed.
    When the primary objective of copulation is to get “sexual pleasure”, and the “child” resulted from it is the “by-product”, the child will have the life of a common man (good-bad-worst).
    But when the sexual intercourse (conscious, prudent, disciplined) is treated as a Yagya, the child resulted out of it will have high degree of nobleness.

    The Good Child
    1)      Is the biggest wealth and achievement of his/her parents.
    2)      Is able to meet the hopes and aspirations of the parents.
    3)      Is able to serve their parents.
    4)      Is able to meet the hopes and aspirations of the society, country and humanity.
    5)      Is able to create a bench mark.
    6)      Is able to produce another good child.
    7)      Is Healthy, intelligent, assertive, with good memory and concentration.
    8)      Has good emotional intelligence.
    9)      Has insight and intuition.
    10)  Has good ability of presentation.
    11)  Has pleasing personality.
    12)  Is prudent, grateful and merciful, with ego under control.
    13)  Is with least imperfections.
    14)  Is fortunate and successful.
    15)  Is like leader with ability to uplift others.
    16)  He/she takes care of the nature and environment.
    17)  He/she appreciates the talents of others.
    18)  He/She likes cleanliness and is neat and clean.
    19)  Is dutiful and without laziness and other wasteful habits.
    20)  Has good self determination and control over the situation.
    21)  His/Her mind will be able to get (milk) the required knowledge/wisdom from the  knowledge capital prevailing in the cosmos. His mental energy and intuition will be high.