Love Relationship and Marriage

A person may fell in Love with some one due to Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) between them or Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect) between them.

If you have faith in Past birth and Rebirth, then believe that the marriage, love and intimate sexual relationship(s) of past birth(s) do have impact on the present birth. Ø

Since rebirth is due to not getting “Moksha”, and some sins (unbalanced Debit/Credit in terms of relations and finance), it is quiet possible that your past births partner(s) reappear in your life, make you crazy, but do not become yours! Or become yours, but out of some situational compulsion and you may not like her/him. On having many intimate sexual relationships in past birth, it is quiet possible to get more than one wife/husband in the present birth, or extramarital relationships, or disturbed relationships, or many love failures, not getting the desired other half, situational or compelled single-hood, loss of other half (some days after marriage, or before completion of old age), situation of staying away from each other for many days in a year, etc.
Those, like many Sadhus/Monks/Bachelors who haven't "fulfilled" themselves by getting intimate (ethical sexual relationship) and supporting and getting supported by an opposite sex as "Other Half" may too find difficulty in getting the "Other Half" in the next birth(s). 

The rich/ more influential/strong/dominant people will have more probability to get into polygamy or intimate sexual relationships with more than one partner.

These all relations will again decide the fate in the next birth(s). The children and dependents are also the result of unbalanced Debit/Credit of past births of the individual and family.

Money/wealth/job/salary/personality/family/race/religion/caste/educational qualifications/jealousy/competition/other relationships/other ego factors, etc. play an important role in making and deciding the fate of the love relationships, which starts with the first sight, creations of impressions and follow-ups.  

To bid a high incomer/successful bride/bridegroom even compromises with genealogy and astrological factors are made in many parts of the country.

Most often the Love is between the people having some Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) between them (say being attractive, both being successful, happening to be together, etc.), but the cases of divorce and frustrations after marriage may also be high in this category, especially due to ego, jealousy, imbalance between work life and family life, misunderstandings, children related problems, existing relationships and 'influencing of divorce', etc. Here both the partners may have dominating effect and issues related to children may get less prioritized.

Many successful person, either do not marry, even when they marry, produce no to very few child and most often their child will not be so successful.

In the case of failed love, frustrations are quiet natural. To control frustration, try to use the power of wisdom. Sometimes when there is a serious virus attack in the computer, it is recommended to use the "System Restore" tool to "undo harmful changes to your computer". Think about your life, which was before meeting the "infatuating" partner, who could not become yours. Try to meet your good old friends of days before meeting that partner. Make balance sheet of all good and bad deeds done by you. Charitable/Philanthropic activities, visiting of religious places and eco-tourism sites, watching of comedy movies, etc. will also help. This all will give you lots of comforts. 
I am not sure, but I am developing notion that the love relationships with the intention of marriage+/sex, should be avoided between the Rashi (Vedic astrology) of self and that of the very close blood relatives, though there may be good similarity in thoughts and understandings.

But most marriage, with no or least cases of divorce is in the cases of some Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect) between them, though there may be frustrations (say differences in income, property, success level, ego, height, weight, color, age, education, past relationships, etc.). Here one partner will have more dominating effect on the other, which will be happily/unhappily accepted by the other. Here issues related to children will get prioritized, at least by one partner! God does not give all happiness to everyone.

The successful marriages are the combination of some Similarity (Supplementary effect/Synergetic effect) and some Dissimilarity (Complementary effect/Fulfilling effect).

Balanced diet is better than that of the one type of tasty food. Many online matrimonial sites will be in better position to comment on the factors which influences the "Natural Selection in Human Breeding".

The active age for involving in career related success and fruitful copulation coincides. The professionally successful couples, not having successful child will feel very unhappy at the later part of their life. So at least one partner, especially the mother should compromise with the hunger of personal success and both partners should involve in parenting, as the professional success may come in the later age, but the time to involve in active parenting will be limited for a short young age (20s and somewhat early part of 30s) in life. A mother’s (along with the father and other family member’s) one year active parenting (copulation, pregnancy and delivery) will prevent her and the family, from the difficulties involved in grooming of the child in somewhat later stages of life.

Ø (I often feel that I had more than one love/intimate relationships in my past birth, and I was rich man, but due to some of my good deeds, I got birth in quiet good family, but could not get the expected love relationship and have to often face shortage/limitation of money. Though having desire to get “Dharma”, “Artha”, “Kama”and “Moksha” in this life, much imperfectness, sensual desires, limitations and laggardness became part of it! Currently I have reached near to completion of the average Half Life (30 years), but still I have not found my expected “Other Half”. I (Kanya Rasi) got attracted to a girl of Singh rasi, Kanya Rasi, Karka rasi and the Vrishabh rasi (by name, not sure of date of birth)-all improperly expressed, short duration and failed!. I finding many “dissimilarities” “rejected” the girl who had come in my fate, mainly due to the family based issues. The girl of Singh rasi, though a year smaller than me was ahead of me in life. “One sided” love for her was so strong that I was able to “feel” her even by being on a very distant place from her. She had “Synergetic effect” on me and my mind kept on giving feelings for her, such that the year in which she got “engaged”, the feelings for her increased, and later on knowing that she is between Marriage and Single hood I even expressed desire to marry her, but her success in career, my laggardness and struggle in career and something unknown, kept her to strongly avoid me. Many astrologers do not recommend the marriage between Singh and Kanya. I used “Gyan yoga” and mantra therapy to control my emotions towards her.) 

Using Astrology in Planning the Life

The Traders and speculators in the stock/commodity market use Fundamental Analysis and Technical Analysis to plan their trade and gain profit while reducing the risks and minimizing the loss.

These analysis is based on the belief that "History Repeats Itself". All businesses, particularly the insurance industry is based on Trend Analysis. Learnings from the Past forms the basis of Planning for the Future.

Astrology is too a similar science. Similar to the Exchange markets, Human life is too filled with many risks and uncertainties. From the beginning of civilizations, people would be trying to analyze the fact why some one becomes so fortunate and someone so unfortunate? Why some one is able to gain maximum success and happiness in life? Based on the different studies and generalizations, some conclusions on human fate would had been derived which became the science of Astrology. 

Indian Vedic Astrology takes time of birth, date of birth, and place of birth for predicting the fortune. Palmistry, finger print reading, face reading, hand-writing reading, etc. are also used by many astrologers/personality analyzers.

The influence of planets (astronomical objects), Vastu sastra, color, metals and stones, "karma of past birth", karma in the present life, relationship with relatives, dependents and friends, etc. are also used in explaining many happenings in life.

Some people have good intuition and they can foresee some events. Some people talks of their dream coming true. These all may be the effects of different mental energies, influence of past birth or the "spirits".

Career and Sex are the too main goals of most of the living beings. (As per the Indian philosophy, apart from     Arth (Money) and Kama (Sex), the other two are Spiritualism/Dharma and Moksha).

Very few people get success in getting the desired career, sexual relationships, progenies, property, recognition, etc. Large number of people suffers from one or the other frustrations. 

The science of astrology can be used to manage the frustrations by providing prudence, perseverance and rationalism towards different disturbing events in life.

I too ponder about the possibility of getting a progeny with fate and success similar to a given successful personality by a planned and controlled copulation, pregnancy, delivery and grooming of the child. For this the mutual understanding and cooperation between the male-female copulating partners are must.

Sometimes in a society, a female is more successful than the "matching age group" males of that society. In this case, without compromising her ego, she will find difficulty in getting the bridegroom. If not motivated/"compelled" to marry, possibility of her remaining unmarried  is high which is not good from the "Eugenics" point of view, but may be good from the entrepreneur/leader point of view!. (In India and many parts of the world, marriages are mainly out of the compulsion by parents, family, society, etc.). Here again the astrology can play an important role to help the female in taking her marriage decision. This also holds good for the male who finds difficulty in getting his "perfect" "other half".

If we take a successful personality who was able to get success in career (remuneration, recognition) and sex (love, marriage with the desired partner with getting of progeny (successful and fertile)), study his/her place and time of birth and make a back calculation about the probable time of copulation by his/her parents, and try to replicate some of the environmental factors which prevailed from his/her copulation to delivery and grooming, will it not be possible to get a child near to the success of that personality?

Many successful astrologers would be those who have studied large number of successful personalities and the environmental factors associated with them.

It is bit difficult to plan the copulation, but the time of marriage and culture has role in it. Creating good environment during pregnancy is quiet easy to attain. Deciding the suitable place of delivery can also be planned, and it is quiet easy to attain.

After the child's birth, his/her kundli/horoscope should be prepared and analysed. The study of the kundli should be in the background of new environment and new opportunities. The successful personalities with similar kundili/horoscope/date, time and place of birth should also be studied. Recommendations from other branches of astrology like palmistry, Numerology, Nadi astrology can also be taken into account.

Based on these astrological predictions, with the study of new environment and opportunities, if the direction/path of life is planned, will it not be easy for the child to attain success?

Genealogy/Family Tree:  As we cannot separate ourself from some of the hereditary diseases, we cannot separate ourself from the good and bad deeds of our ancestors, parents and other relatives. An individual and/or a family needs to maintain the genealogical records/family tree of their parents, relatives and ancestors, especially in reference to the timings and date of the important events like birth, different turning points, education, profession, relations, fortunes and misfortunes, success and mistakes, children, investments, death,  etc. These records will also play a very important role in planning the life of the young child.
For the believers of Life after Death: Quiet often, the deceased family members/relatives, takes rebirth in the same family. So the family records will help in giving the child a better future.

Acknowledgement: I am grateful to Shri Nagaprasad, CEO, Safe Trade Advisors (http://www.safetradeadvisors.com), Bangalore,  who taught me the basics of Technical and Fundamental analysis in Commodity Trading.


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